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Portrait of Mrs. Calco |
Along with my school family, I mourn the death last week of our principal, Kym Calco, after a
courageous battle with leukemia. She was a woman who lived with passion and
joy. Mrs. Calco was a thorough professional, yet
knew how to embrace adventure. It was
only last year when, along with several teachers, we accompanied her to Columbus
for an ACSI convention. We must have
circled our destination several times, laughing as our GPS had a total meltdown
navigating so many detours that it could only repeat “recalculate” in an
unending loop. By the time we shut it
off and found the destination on our own, we were late. Like a seasoned NASCAR driver swinging into
the pit, Mrs. Calco maneuvered into our parking spot with what can only be
described as efficient precision. Still
bubbling with laughter, she threw off her headscarf and pulled on her wig with
practiced ease. We all spilled out of the car at a run, struggling to slip into
a more fitting demeanor. With just
minutes to spare, she walked to the front of the sanctuary, composed and dignified
to receive a certificate on behalf of LCCS. She moved seamlessly between different situations, engaging those around her to be a part of the journey.
As a teacher, she challenged me to dig deeper and reach
higher. I wish I could say I always did
so joyfully, but that wouldn’t be honest.
She taught me about how to use “EQs,”or to the uninitiated, “Essential
questions.” They're the questions that
can’t be answered with “yes,” “no,” or rote answers. They’re the ones that distill a lesson down to
the one or two meaty things on which I wish my students to chew.
Standing in a school worship service the day after she died,
my heart was lifted to hear our young men and women praying aloud for the Calco
family, our school, and thanking God for the impact she had on their young
lives. I want to pause and reflect on
that today. If I were to write the essential question for
the lesson she taught me through her luminous example, it would be this: How
can I live to make a difference for Jesus in the lives of others?